What he does give us is the strength to pick ourselves up and keep going. He gives us peace, his truly unconditional love, and so much more. It's hard when you're discouraged. Maybe your job is making you absolutely miserable. It feels like your marriage just isn't where it should be and isn't what it should be. Maybe you feel like you'll never get married. Maybe the life-altering call you'd been hoping and praying for just never came. Or your paycheck just doesn't stretch half as far as you need it to. There are so many hard things in this life. And they're not going to go away Christian or not. But like I said the Lord gives us the strength to get through. As hard as it is sometimes you just have to keep praying, and keep waiting. I think growing up means dealing with the hard things. As an adult you deal with things you never thought about as a child. Getting groceries paying the electric bill, car insurance, etc. And growing in Christ means dealing with all kinds of things and keeping the faith anyway. The everyday little things and then sometimes the really big things.
Sometimes all you can do is accept your circumstances, change your attitude, and keep going. You have to take all the hard things in life to get to the good. You need to make sure to always remember no matter what happens there is always some good no matter how small it is. And if we really stop to think about it life is a lot of small good things, random wonderful moments, the everyday kind of stuff we don't always think of as good or special or nice broken up by the bigger more difficult things. You just can't focus on the big things, try and meditate on the Lord and all the little daily blessings he gives you.