Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Dear Husband-Best-Friend-Dude

Husband Loving on his little one via Mommy's giant stomach

Dear Husband-Best-Friend-Dude, Thank you for being so amazing.  We had our rough times when we first got married and we were unable to live together for 2 1/2 years...but you're home now and I am so happy.  I'm so glad we made a deal to not be trash can fighters *a trashcan fighter is someone who goes back and uses old trash as ammo in an argument if you do that the fight will never ever end* I am so glad that we both can admit to how difficult deployment was for us as newlyweds, not only that but we can admit to all the different mistakes that we made.  I'm overjoyed that instead of rehashing those mistakes and being bitter and upset we both decided if we can't remember the good times about it, the positive times...we aren't going to talk about it.  Maybe that doesn't work for everyone but it works for us.  We decided looking back can be hard and painful, everything happens for a reason no matter how hard or difficult it was for both of us to go through it thanks to God we came out on the other side and we can honestly say there is no reason to look back when we've both been forgiven and really...why waste our time on this earth looking back?  When our time on this earth is so short whats the point of reliving moments that were less than wonderful?  We have each other, the Lord, our amazing family, and now a baby on the way.  Thank you by the way for giving me this wonderful little miracle, thank you for being so excited about our baby.  Thank you for singing 'Jesus loves me' to my tummy yesterday morning while we laid in bed...I don't think I will ever be able to forget that.  Thank you for being calm while I'm crazy, thank you for giving me balance in every way.  Thank you for loving my brothers like you do, they're more like my own kids than brothers.  Thank you for being my one and only.  And I Love you ♥

PS- I am sorry I am so controlling...♥

Linking up with Cassie over at Live.Laugh.L0ve. for Husbands need Love to!


Cassie @ Live.Laugh.L0ve. said...

Oh so sweet!! Love this letter! Thanks so much for linking up! :)

Our Little Fam said...

Aw, that is so very sweet! How have you been feeling?

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